My name is Saly and I’m 32 years old. After living and working for several years in Europe, I returned to settle in my home country where my family lives. I am African and when I arrived, my parents told me that at my age I should already be married. Every day, I felt the family pressure and I confess that I was a little ashamed when I saw my cousins or my little sisters already married.
At first, it did not bother me because I always put my work at the forefront of my life. I did not want to depend on a man. So I worked to have everything I own.
One day, my father introduced me to his friend’s nephew and he said, “He’s your husband…” I did not say anything because my dad did everything for me, he paid my education fees. I met my fiancé 3 months before our engagement.
I found it charming and it was to my care. We had a good feeling at first. I was seduced by his kindness.
A friend told me that she saw my fiancé in my car with another girl.
So I conducted my investigation and found that in fact my future husband was a real womanizer. He had a girlfriend in every neighbourhood of the city.
Indeed, he made these girls believe that he was very rich. He had asked me for money several times to do business. I was thinking of helping him but he was taking my money to care for other women.
My parents were very happy to celebrate my wedding. I explained to my mother that my fiancé was a very unfaithful man. She told me that all the men were the same and that even my father had girlfriends but that she closed her eyes on her infidelities.
I refuse to live like that and I decided to stop everything.
What do you recommend, that I should do?